Springtime always seems to bring with it an energy and a busyness that comes out of nowhere, at least for me! Out of the darkness and chill of winter, life bursts forth, and suddenly I’ve got a million items on my to-do list and a...
This is a frequent conversation I have with my adolescent clients. Phil: Mom tells me that you refuse to wash dishes. Is that right? Steve: Yah Phil: Why don’t you like to wash dishes? Steve: Not fun Phil: Really . . . I washed dishes...
Over 10 years ago, I taped a prayer onto my kitchen cupboard where I would see it often. It was an extremely challenging time in my personal and family life. I felt anxious, stressed, burdened and grieved. I needed the daily (sometimes hourly) reminder that...
If your business is struggling, is it possible that it’s because you know your financial statements better than you know your people? If, as a therapist and former business owner, I could make just one recommendation to owners of struggling businesses it would be this;...
Although crisis is often unpredictable, there are predictable phases that we experience. Knowing these might allow a struggle to be normalized. Phases of a crisis: Impact stage - learning new information that is overwhelming. This may include being stunned, numb, immediate grief, anger etc. This...
"I didn’t mean to hit them! I just got really mad all of the sudden.” “I can’t concentrate on anything right now!” “I wasn’t trying to distract the class, I was just feeling kind of hyper.” “I planned to go home to finish that project...next...
A white Caucasian male in his mid-to-late thirties sits down for lunch in his mother’s kitchen. He slowly enjoys the sandwich he has made for himself, along with a handful of Sea Salt and Vinegar potato chips, (which for the sake of losing a few...
It’s Sunday. You still have a million and one things left on your wishful weekend “to do” list and time is rapidly slipping by. Your motivation level is at a flat zero and you’re looking ahead at another busy week. Sound familiar? What if I...
Do you feel like you have lots of things you need to do or should be doing, but you just can’t seem to get them done? Do you have trouble being productive and staying motivated to get your tasks completed? Do you find yourself getting...
The start of a new year can bring out hope, excitement, and a resolve for personal growth. Often people will enter the year with goals or resolutions. Wellness goals are some of the more popular types of goals. You may want to begin a new...